You've done all the "tricks" you've learned in Cosmo magazine. But your Man-Catching Mojo is still missing something. Perhaps you're overlooking some really simple things.
Hair extensions? Check. Fake lashes? Check. High heels? Little black dress? Great smile? Check, check, and check. You've done all the obvious things to get guys' attention. And so far, it's worked—kinda. There is a chance that you're wondering how your "less obvious" gal pal ends up scoring all the hot, available guys. There's nothing wrong with going all out to enhance your assets. But if you want to attract men under all sorts of circumstances, you might be overlooking a few key elements of female seduction. Try some of these surprising tricks.
Take longer, slower strides.
What's the big hurry? With a relaxed expression and a casual gait, you'll look introspective. Men whose eye you catch won't feel that they must skip to catch up with you—making it much easier for them to start up a conversation with you. You'll also love that the longer strides help your legs look longer. When you walk a bit slower, you appear in control of your stride. And confidence = sex appeal.
Wear red lipstick.
Want to really make an impact? Keep the rest of your make-up light and dewy. Then finish off the clean yet polished look with a pop of red. This works well on days when your outfit is extremely casual. The red lip says: "I've got a wild, seductive streak"—even when you're dressed down. In general, the color red is both whimsical and designed to get people to notice the wearer. Have fun with it.
Skip the big purse.
Have you ever noticed how much you tend to fidget when you're carrying a purse? You're either adjusting its straps, swinging it...or constantly rifling through it. Handbags, as wonderful as they are to look at and carry around, can be a distraction. The next time you head to the mall, or on weekend errands, sport a clutch—or better yet---go empty handed. If you're typically attached to the hip with your bag, you'll probably feel "naked" and perhaps a bit self-conscious at first. But after a time, the freedom will begin to look good on you.
Be nice to other people.
Your mother had more than one reason for nagging you about always being on your best behavior. You never know when someone will be watching you. Salty remarks, snide looks, and other things you thought no one was paying attention to, could be what keeps that guy in the bookstore from approaching you. Contrary to popular belief, men actually like women who are nice and respectful of others. This quality in and of itself can take you from a "6" to a "10" in the mind of the hot guy checking you out.
Hair extensions? Check. Fake lashes? Check. High heels? Little black dress? Great smile? Check, check, and check. You've done all the obvious things to get guys' attention. And so far, it's worked—kinda. There is a chance that you're wondering how your "less obvious" gal pal ends up scoring all the hot, available guys. There's nothing wrong with going all out to enhance your assets. But if you want to attract men under all sorts of circumstances, you might be overlooking a few key elements of female seduction. Try some of these surprising tricks.
Take longer, slower strides.
What's the big hurry? With a relaxed expression and a casual gait, you'll look introspective. Men whose eye you catch won't feel that they must skip to catch up with you—making it much easier for them to start up a conversation with you. You'll also love that the longer strides help your legs look longer. When you walk a bit slower, you appear in control of your stride. And confidence = sex appeal.
Wear red lipstick.
Want to really make an impact? Keep the rest of your make-up light and dewy. Then finish off the clean yet polished look with a pop of red. This works well on days when your outfit is extremely casual. The red lip says: "I've got a wild, seductive streak"—even when you're dressed down. In general, the color red is both whimsical and designed to get people to notice the wearer. Have fun with it.
Skip the big purse.
Have you ever noticed how much you tend to fidget when you're carrying a purse? You're either adjusting its straps, swinging it...or constantly rifling through it. Handbags, as wonderful as they are to look at and carry around, can be a distraction. The next time you head to the mall, or on weekend errands, sport a clutch—or better yet---go empty handed. If you're typically attached to the hip with your bag, you'll probably feel "naked" and perhaps a bit self-conscious at first. But after a time, the freedom will begin to look good on you.
Be nice to other people.
Your mother had more than one reason for nagging you about always being on your best behavior. You never know when someone will be watching you. Salty remarks, snide looks, and other things you thought no one was paying attention to, could be what keeps that guy in the bookstore from approaching you. Contrary to popular belief, men actually like women who are nice and respectful of others. This quality in and of itself can take you from a "6" to a "10" in the mind of the hot guy checking you out.
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